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                        Has your doctor done any neurological testing?  Illnesses such a multiple schlerosis have similar symptoms and can be years before a definite diagnosis is made.  From what you've described, it sounds as if it could be a neuro-muscular problem rather than a bone problem.  Check with your doctor and good luck.