cathy
It is hard for two people to be completely safe even with condoms. I have hpv, and a couple times i had to get small bumps burned off my vagina, it's not that bad, honestly. it hurts, but is is better than having an std that you could die from. think if you really want to be with this man forever. because if you dont then you turn into the carrier that has to tell someone you have something. i beyond commend your mans honesty in this situation. If my man had been so honest... you have a terrific guy i think just because he obviously cared about you more than his own ego. don't be too scared, just be safe and enjoy the love.