stacy
You said you have been tested for all std's and have had negative results ... however ... there is no definitive test for hpv ... so there is a possibility you may have hpv and not even know it. HPV is one of the most common std's and in most cases, people never manifest any symptoms. Infact it is estimated that approximately 60% of the population of people who have had sex carry the virus, most of who did not know it as they never had any symptoms. The major questions you should ask yourself is 'do I smoke?' as there is an increase in cervical cancer of smokers in combination with hpv. This is something that is of personal choice ie. if you should be intimate with this man. The truth is MANY men carry the virus and very few would be courageous, honest and have enough integrity to inform a potential sex mate. He certainly sounds like a wonderful person !! However, ultimately it is your personal decision to make.