Stefani
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                        
                        
                        Linda,     I just found this site, and your posted message.  For the first time in my life, I feel like I'm not alone in this.  Although, I am 34 years old, and have done my best to deal with this, I'm having a hard time.  I would really appreciate being able to communicate with you.  If you get this, please reply to me Thanks!